Changes.

It is funny the things you realize about people after you are a little older and hopefully a little more mature. I am beginning to realize a little bit more what it means to respect guys especially futuristically in a husband. Guys like their opinions and ideas respected. Even if they are a little unsure of what they say or even know they might be wrong. I think some of the best advice for marriage is something i read in a book where it said to let the husband have their role as the head of the house so that we are free to be the heart. Makes sense. It is hard to know how to respect guys sometimes. It seems like we are never free to have out own opinions or to be right. But i don't think it really means that but rather as the woman we need to be more humble. So i haven't figured it out all but i have seen a lot of women intentionally or unintentionally put down their husbands or impose their ideas on them rather than allow their husbands to be the head and in charge. I don't want to be this way and i think before i realized this i was headed this direction. So hopefully i am learning still. Slowly maybe, but learning all the same.